How can I be more successful?

How can I be more successful?

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Let’s talk about success. Not just the big, life-altering kind, but the everyday wins that add up. Getting a better grade on a test than last time. Finally landing that skateboard trick. Mastering a tough song on the guitar. 

These successes are directly linked to more happiness and more life satisfaction. People who regularly experience a sense of achievement report higher levels of well-being! Investing in your skills, whether in sports, arts, academics, or hobbies, automatically boosts your happiness. 

So, how do you create more of those wins? It starts with your mindset. Here are seven powerful quotes to help build one.

Quote #1: Whatever you persist in doing becomes easier to do, not because the thing has changed but because your power to do it has increased. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Your brain and body are the most sophisticated machinery in the universe. They adapt to whatever you consistently practice. 

Want to become a better writer, athlete, or musician? Your intelligence will adapt, your muscles will shape themselves, and your skills will grow. Persistence is the key. You are built to learn. 

Take Taylor Swift’s approach: "I've never been a natural, all I do is try, try, try." Don’t get stuck wondering if you were born to do something. Just invest the time, try persistently, and watch the magic happen.

Quote #2: Trust the process.

Almost everything worthwhile is a process. It takes time, effort, and experience. Here’s the equation:

Effort + Experience + Time = Success.

Life isn’t Christmas; you won’t always get instant results. If you try something and you’re not immediately great at it, stay with it. Don’t quit. Don’t leave the ring. 

Building patience is like building a muscle. Stay committed, trust that the process works, and reap the rewards that only come with sticking it out.

Quote #3: Where there is no vision, the people perish. (Proverbs 29:18 KJV) 

This isn’t about literal peril. It’s about direction. To experience success in school, sports, or any pursuit, you benefit massively from having a vision. Set goals. Give your brain a clear target. 

A brain with a focus runs better. Goals are hard and require push, but they provide motivation. Instead of drifting and hoping things turn out, take ownership. 

Check your compass. Decide what’s important and valuable, then live deliberately and work to get there.

Quote #4: Be Proactive. -Stephen Covey

In his book on effective habits, Stephen Covey lists this first. Being proactive means taking initiative. Other people are busy with their own lives. While help is wonderful, you cannot wait for it. 

You have to create your own opportunities. The boat isn’t coming, you have to swim out to it. Ditch any mindset that you are owed something or are powerless. Those ideas keep you passive. Don’t wait for your grades to fix themselves or for a coach to notice you. 

Be the change. Use your courage and move forward with commitment.

Quote #5: Work hard and smart.

Let’s be real. There is no substitute for practice and hard work. Talent alone isn’t enough.  Idleness might seem easier now, but the long-term consequences can make life harder. 

Make a commitment here and now to work hard at whatever you do, and always look for ways to work smarter and more effectively.

Quote #6: Be a people person

Your success and happiness are directly connected to your relationships. Being a “people person” doesn’t require you to be the most outgoing. It’s a skill you build. It means three things:

Believe in people. Choose to see the good, the potential, and the effort in others. Give people a chance.

Be valuable to people. Stop obsessing over whether people like you. Focus on being valuable to them. Help out, contribute, and watch your own value rise naturally.

Work with people. Use the buddy system. Learn to operate in a team, a club, or on a group project. Don’t run from these opportunities, they will keep you humble.

Quote #7: Live, die, repeat.

This isn’t a literal suggestion. It’s a metaphor for resilience. You will try things that don’t work. You might get rejected, fail a test, or not make the team. When that happens, learn from it and go again. 

Persist. Build your psychological muscle for endurance.

It’s time to upgrade your internal dialogue. Replace phrases like “I tried, it’s hard, I quit” or “I failed, I’m just not good at this” with something new:

• I try. It’s hard. I’ll trust the process and keep trying.

• I got rejected. I’ll keep trying because I’m persistent.

• I didn’t make it. I’ll ask for help, work harder, and go again.

• I’m failing. I need more practice. My brain and body will learn this with time and effort.

There are countless tips for success, but these seven ideas match where you are right now. Let these concepts sink in. Make them part of how you operate. Watch as your motivation and optimism become more stable, even when things get hard. Now, go and build your success.

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