Is there a nice way to say mean things?

Absolutely there is a way for you to be honest, and at the same time, for you to be respectful, kind, considerate, and honorable! I actually find that a lot of adults are not this way right now. A lot of adults, especially those who are in really visible positions, whether they be politics, or show business, or TV, I think are more in the business of hearing themselves talk, drawing attention to themselves, or going around picking fights, and creating drama.